I am 12 weeks and haven’t told my mother

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I am due 7/30 and considering telling my side of the family after my anatomy scan (probably closer to March) … I’m hoping to get the gender and then do a gender reveal cake and just bring it over and when they cut into it just say surprise I’m pregnant it’s a …. (Insert gender) …

My mother is a pretty negative person so I was really just trying to distract her from giving me a negative reaction 🤷🏾‍♀️ idk if this will work