So my husband and I had our first son in 2018 and I was firm no on having another I was terrified from my experience. I recently decided to agree to trying for our second but need to have my doctor switch my medication around first to make it more baby friendly before we can start. Our first was a new years accidents I've never actually tried to get pregnant and I've started researching it and its quite overwhelming. I thought it would be much easier to do, honestly there is so much to consider that I didn't even realize.