Am I wrong here?
I’m currently 28 weeks pregnant with my second child. I’ve been married for 8 years. I’m currently in modified bed rest because of placenta previa and I’ve been told to stay on pelvic rest and not to exercise at all. I’m still allowed to drive but minimally.
Husband, daughter and I are currently living in a town house while we’re waiting for our house to be finished being built. The parking here is HORRIBLE and only allows one car in the lot per house. Other cars have to park on a very steep hill that’s a quarter mile away from our house. Because of this I asked husband if I could keep my car in the parking spot next to our house since I have to do the school run and can’t exercise. He agreed but wasn’t happy. Last night husband came home and was unpacking his truck from a camping trip he had this weekend. He parked in a no parking zone for what he thought would be five minutes but he forgot about the car, never told me and he remembered this afternoon. Of course his car has been towed and he’s FURIOUS at ME!! He told me this wouldn’t have happened if I didn’t have to park my car in the house spot and he should get that spot since he’s working and I’m just a SAHM. The bill to get it out of tow is going to be $400 and he’s now telling me he doesn’t want to get the car out of tow at all beciase we don’t have that money (it’s a very expensive truck that we just paid off) and that if I want it out to figure it out on my own. He yelled at me for two hours about how frustrated he is at me and how this is all my fault and wouldn’t have happened if I just stepped up and started being his partner instead of doing everything “for my comfort” and ots his fault beciase he allows it 🙄 is this my fault?! What do I do here?
UPDATE: He continued yelling at me so I refused to drive him to the towing place to get his truck. I dropped my daughter off at my moms for the night and came home to go to bed early because I have an early dr appt in the morning. He got home and had obviously been venting to his friend (who took him to the tow yard) about me. He told me he is questioning what good I am to him because I can’t even take him to go and get his truck out of tow then told me that I’m not his ride or die I’m the “bitch and cry” 🙄. He then stormed back out back to his friends house. I packed a bag and am now at my moms sobbing over this.
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