Well around January 2 I had kicked my kids father out. It was the day I was getting my car out and he couldn’t give me a ride to the mechanic, he also stole $40 from me.

I haven’t seen him in three weeks but I spoke to him two Sundays ago when he told me he had already been sick with the Covid for a week.

This was 9th of January Because I was sick since the second and didn’t call him until a week later..

he had said he was sick for a whole week and that’s why I didn’t hear from him .. well it’s Ben 10 days since then so that would accumulate to 17 days which is almost 3 weeks and I know he hasn’t been sick that long considering he gave it to me and my kids and we’re already cured.

He called me and then hung up A few days ago because I got a private call and tried to say he couldn’t talk and told me how he’s been in bed all day. Its evident he’s with someone else, he’s always been a cheater but To top it off he doesn’t have father qualities and he has kids that he lied to me about..

we weren’t getting along because it seems that I’m doing everything by myself as far as cleaning and finding ways to pay all of my bills because he was only given me $400 here and there and my rent is 800 along with my car note and my light bill which is now almost $600.

If he paid all the bills that I wouldn’t mind cleaning up the house but the fact he is not inclined to anything else and expect me to find the other half is the issue..

He works at a lumberyard and gets paid every week

I am pregnant and the whole time I had to get my daughter to help me mainly around the house because he sat around on his phone and just waited for a command instead of naturally helping me.

He’s 30 years old and he doesn’t even know how to drive let alone clean up or cook. Not even change a tire!

He did me wrong on multiple occasions and said he tried to change but instead he just gave me money and thought that could fix everything but the connection still wasn’t there and I still have resentment

He kept saying how he loved me and was acting sad etc. but I know the manipulator that he is & eventually blocked him because I didn’t have anything else that I wanted to hear that was three days ago I got a call the next day private and he hung up really quick as if I was going to text him so he can converse with me while he has been laid up wherever he’s been but for the most part I wanted to end it

I was sick on the second and I stayed sick for about 10 days which would equal to the 12th. Even after then I still didn’t hear from him and here it is the 19th which is a week later.. 17 days in almost 3 weeks since he has called me.

He tried everything to fix it after I caught him cheating on me in October after I kicked him out because I had him watch my kids while I was getting my hair done and he literally was in my house all day 5 hrs and didn’t bother to fix my kids anything to eat or attempt to ask were they hungry. I know because I asked my daughter

He made excuses about my daughter being able to handle my son and feed herself as well but those are excuses and they are kids.

He begged me and chased after me and even tried to bribe me with money from then until the end of December but I couldn’t take it anymore and finally kicked him out completely after several days of me telling him that I couldn’t do it

It’s evident that he’s messing with someone else but my confusion is him begging me and telling me that he still loves me but it’s all a act .

I feel I made the right decision blocking him and I haven’t talk to him since then it’s been a few days but I feel blessed