Living with MIL
Going on a MIL rant. Sometimes feel like I’m over exaggerating, but need others opinions. Initially my husband and I wanted to get our own place, but she wanted us to get a place together to “help each other out”. For a while I still said no, but she kept insisting that I ended up agreeing. So here we are now, and I can’t wait to get out 😫. I knew it would be hard living with others, especially with a baby and my husband and I being newly weds.
The first issue was that she would constantly judge me for breastfeeding telling my husband I have to cover up cause “nobody wants to see that shit” it got to a point where I had to eat in my room cause I was breastfeeding. Mind you I wouldn’t even fully expose my breast. Of course I was pissed and this caused issues between me and my husband.
Then she started going against my parenting style, judging what I fed my daughter ( she is a picky eater now) so she mainly enjoys pastas, rice, and soups.
Here’s some messages she sent when she baby sat while we went to the gym
I really am not comfortable here. I feel that I can never be good. I enjoy keeping a tidy house and she says I have OCD. I didn’t cook for my husband one week cause I was down with covid and she gossips that “ I don’t cook for her son”. Yet they always asked to eat what I cooked cause SHE wouldn’t cook… I’m just so done.
Yes I have talked to my husband and we plan on moving out soon. When we told her she got extremely mad, and started crying to my husband that she couldn’t afford anything (she makes more than he does). Am I wrong for wanting to leave her ?
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