How do you get your mil to leave u alone or back up a bit while pregnant??

Katt • Cali 909

So my mil has been bugging me everyday since I found out I was pregnant. I’m in bed rest at the moment the doctors have told me everything is looking good now and just to relax but this lady is really stressing me out asking me questions every day or min of the day if I don’t answer my phone she’ll keep calling or texts me all I do is sleep rn n eat lol. also tryna plan things for the baby when I don’t even know the gender yet but yet she assumes I’m having a girl I’m berly 6 weeks i found out very early on I was pregnant. I feel like all that can wait till I know the gender. She’s treating me like I’m a 16 year old that’s pregnant. I’m almost 30 I understand she has many kids but this is my first and I want to enjoy it first hand I know every pregnancy is different. At this point I just want to be left alone. What can I do?? should I sit her down and talk to her?? I already have a mother doing the same thing I really don’t need another one it’s so overwhelming. I need her to step away and let me be. She likes to speak for me sometimes too n it’s so annoying idk if it has to do with me being independent since I was 18 or just this pregnancy but I need her to stop. Thank you ladies positive vibes only💙🧡