This is awlful I’m a Christian my boyfriends not ?

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The internet says a Christian should not be in a relationship with a non Christian and should not marry a non Christian.
This is what it said:
Christians should not marry someone who is not a believer because it is not the way the Lord designed marriage. Marrying a non-Christian will cause you to be unequally yoked, which we are called not to do in 2 Corinthians 6:14. This is to protect us from wounds that can be caused by an unequally yoked marriage and will help keep us from being torn from God.

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Don't believe everything created by man to suit a man's image. This book was not written by the Most High so use your own better judgment. The human brain is the best thing we have so use it instead of just looking for the "answer" all the time when you already have it
There's a difference in not believing and not being a Christian. 
But if you absolutely can't be in a relationship and put religious beliefs apart then don't waste  his time and tell him.

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I would take this with a grain of salt my mom was a believer when her and my dad met my dad was a non believer now they both are and they’ve been married for 21 years so it’s possible for it to work out if that’s Gods plan

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From my understanding, it’s not a sin to stay with someone who is not Christian. However, there are some morals and beliefs that you may not agree on. Obviously you’ll agree on the obvious ones like no lying, no cheating, no adultery, etc. But can you both agree on how to raise your kids (Christian, non Christian, let them decide but help influence them), homosexuality (obviously, we are taught that it’s not ok. Before anyone bashes me, I know there is more to that scripture! Pastors like to focus on homosexuality. Nothing more.), abortion stances, sex before marriage, going to church on whatever day you go every week, etc.? Can you agree on all these things? If so, I don’t see a problem! If you choose to, the biggest question for you is, can you hold on to your Christian beliefs?

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Why are you going off of the internet and not the Bible 🧐 is he interested in getting to know your religion? Is he closed off to it? There are many factors to take into account. Internet is not the way to go about it, in my opinion. Communicate with him

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How you live your life is your decision, I don’t lose sleep over anyone on the Internet nor do I judge anyone. The guideline about not being evenly yoked goes for many things. It’s to prevent problems basically in the future. When you’re not evenly matched with someone for instance financially, when somebody can’t keep a job, they have a ton of debt, they are constantly in trouble with the law, they whatever it may be, obviously it brings you down, it weighs on your heart, and your bank account, and eventually you get tired of carrying the load of the household, that’s why it’s recommended to be evenly matched verses unmatched to put a strain on the relationship. Same goes with everything else. When you are the same religion, or how you raise your kids or views on family or priorities or chores or anything. The order of God, your husband, your kids and then your own family. Same concept when things are out of order that’s when there’s issues. If your husband chooses his own family over the family he built with you, of course it’s going to cause issues. If you neglect your husband and only focus on your kids, you end up being room mates, living as strangers and if the relationship lasts, you are strangers that have to get to know each other when the kids are out of the house. They are guidelines to avoid issues basically. Same with the religious aspect. If you are a Christian and your husband is an atheist or muslim, each person is different but relationships are about compromise and finding a middle ground. If he doesn’t want to go to church with you or it’s a huge fight and now divides your family. Why doesn’t daddy want to go to church with us? Can a Catholic and a Muslim marry and celebrate both Christmas and Islamic holidays and rituals absolutely I have a friend she’s Italian Catholic and she married an Egyptian man they do Santa and the tree etc and he also celebrate eid and other holy days as well. But not everyone can find that balance. We were raised Protestant the best schools where my brother lives was a Catholic school. His wife became Catholic because they required one of the parents to be for the kids to go to the school. My brother goes to the Catholic services he just doesn’t take communion because he’s not Catholic. You can date whomever you want to as long as they treat you well love and respect you. It’s about finding a middle ground. Politics. Religion. Vaccinations. Spankings and how you discipline a child Etc. Lots of hot topics that can cause issues in a relationship. The bottom line is if you can find a compromise, but also remember that you shouldn’t be the only one that makes compromises and sacrifices in a relationship otherwise that will be draining to you. That is the bottom line about being unevenly yolked. It’s to avoid issues. Especially when two people can’t see Eye to eye on a topic and it causes problems in a relationship.

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Be with who u want to be with, end of story.

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People need to stop reading so deep into a book written by man and everything they read on the internet. Marry who you want. 
Marriage isn’t about religion. It’s about love, unity, communication, compromise. If your religion preaches anything but love, acceptance and unity you should rethink what you’re worshiping.

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I feel like religious beliefs is up to the individual if they can look past them. Personally I could not be with a Christian because we live in entirely separate realities and that would just be too much for me to look past.

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Do you not see how unbelievably toxic that sort of belief system is? Is this man a person you love and care for who reciprocates those things? Use your head.

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You are both unequally yoked. I tried this when I was dating I was a Christian the guys were opened to it. If you believe in Jesus God is important to you. So is the Bible then I would break up before you both become more intimate. 
Not believe anything these people are saying about the Bible being man made. 
God is real and Jesus did die on the cross. There is so much proof.
Jesus does not want you with someone who' dosent love him. It's hard to hear but no matter what you do? It's up to that person if they want to accept Christ. 
I rebelled for a long time dated wrong guys ended up in a relationship then caused me PTSD tell this day. The guy wasn't a Christian he was religious. I knew in my heart he wasnt the one. But I liked him he ended up raping me and abusing me. That was my first boyfriend 
God put it in my heart to leave him. He never changed as far as I can tell. 
Decisions and choices you make now in relationships could effect you the rest of your life. 
"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness ."
2 Corinthians 6:14

This is awlful I’m a Christian my boyfriends not ?

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