Venting
I am 18 weeks pregnant. Decided it’s time to leave the baby’s father. He refuses to accept it and keeps saying I’m not leaving him and that I’m mad because he passed covid onto me. Well I’m not happy about it but that’s not why! No matter what “excuse” I give him, he keeps saying no. Good news, I am! And I did! His acceptance issue isn’t my issue. My mother has done way more for me and this unborn child than he ever thought about doing. He’s 26. Still a child himself. Still needs his mom to defend him, lie for him and do things for him. Still lives at home. Any argument we been in, any problems we had, he would invite her into. I’m not down with it. I’m in my 30s. Yes I was aware of his age when we first started dating but he ACTED more mature, so I thought he was. As time went on, I got pregnant within 4 months. Thought I couldn’t have kids. Regardless I told him to be mature not involve his mom or family into our business, he continues to do it. I can’t stand it. He has no motivation to get a place with me. He gave me an engagement ring, constantly takes it back. Like I’m just done with it man. He doesn’t understand it’s over and uses the whole “we’re having a baby we can’t be done” I’m pretty sure there are a lot of people who have been done while pregnant. A lot of people who can go onto coparent with no issues. He makes them. He tries to harm me by saying he don’t want the baby, just the other day told me to get a late term abortion and I’m not birthing the baby without being with him. FALSE! I will actually birth the child and keep the baby with or without him in the baby’s life!!! I’m just done with the immaturity, me and this baby deserve to be happy, and that’s exactly what will happen!!
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