So my husband thinks I'm doing crazy shit and putting my nose in business I don't belong in. My sister in law is going through so much with her pregnancy and it's been a pretty lonely crazy pregnancy for her. I asked her if she was going to do a gender reveal because she's finding out the gender tomorrow and she said she wasn't going to do that or a baby shower but she really wanted to but she was very traumatized the last time she did one for her only child and no one showed up. And it made me want to make her a surprise one just because I know how much this will mean to her and I don't have to go crazy with inviting people I know us (immediate family) will want to celebrate her and her baby and make her feel special and loved. I told my husband I wanted to plan her a surprise one with my mom in law and nothing too crazy.

He told me to stop meddling in shit that doesn't have anything to do with me and just stop doing extreme stuff for people. I asked him what he meant and he reminded me of when my mom passed away months after I planned and did my little cousins birthday party because i know no one would even remember and I just wanted to celebrate her and make her feel loved. Idk I just love seeing people happy and I feel like special moments like that should be celebrated and those people should be appreciated. Maybe I'm going too far but I can't help it I wanna see her happy :(