So a while back I posted asking if I was crazy for asking my husband to block a certain woman on Instagram because they had exchanged nudes in 2019.

Our marriage has never been the same. So anyway, 2 nights ago my husband asked to see my phone . I had stuff on there that I didn't want him to see (it was girl talk between me and my best friend) so obviously I got nervous and he straight went to a chat between me and this guy who is "woke " and we talk shit about some of the stuff that goes on.

So , my husband just called me to ask about the guy . The first thing he said was

"I'll go straight to the point, this is not working .

And I said okay. The he proceeded to ask how we are going to tell the kids , the oldest is 6.

I answered him that we will. And then he said okay , that was it i wanted to talk to you about .

He said he is done.

I asked him if it's because of what and he said it's not working .

I don't know how I feel . It's like I'm sad for my kids but I also feel like it's for the best.

After his affairs , nothing has been the same .

What am I supposed to do?

I have no family, they are in a wgole different continent and even of i was there , I have no one .I'm an only child and my mom passed away 2 years ago.

I feel responsible for this . It's like I wish I didn't engage with this guy and be clear, no there has never been anything inappropriate at all.

I guess I need good vibes and courage to move forward .

I'm sorry if it's everywhere .

..edit*** He had a full blown affair with one woman.

Threatened to leave so many times .

I was pregnant at the time and my mom was dying.

He also went looking for hookups on the week I was due. When I confronted him about it he said he didn't do it .

He was also in a sex group chat on Facebook.

It's a bunch of things . And ohh on the day we found out we were expecting our 3rd child, he messaged my best friend telling her how attracted he has always been to her.

I remember how hurt I was.

And then couple of weeks later, I found out that he had been hanging out with one of my friends that I had introduced him to cause I never thought he would do something like that behind my back.

So yeah it's been a lot .