I’m 30, and use to have a really decent sex drive but never really had consistent sex in relationships, it was always haphazard because of it being a short relationship, long distance or when I was dating someone long term he wanted to wait til marriage but we ended up having sex after 1.5 years but it was still not that often. I wasn’t really into one night stands only had a couple. Anyway, I’ve been with my fiancé for 4 years, I had a high sex drive when we first started dating but after about 6 months, I literally never feel horny unless I’m being touched and even then it takes me a while to get into it. I miss my high sex drive lol and my partner is 9 years older so his is probably on par with mine. I just want us to have sex more often but I’m never in the mood to initiate it and he says he’ll never say no if I do. Should I just masturbate more? Is it normal to have no libido at 30? Is there any supplements I can take? I’ve been off birth control for almost 2 years. Please help a horny-less sis!