Adjusting to a second baby

I’m expecting a little brother for our December 2019 baby in March, which is rapidly approaching 😰 I’m increasingly getting sad about it though. My first son was our first child and I love how our world revolves around him (in a healthy way)- he wants to go to the park, we go. He gets tired of his toys, I make up a fun game or bake with him. I am a stay at home mom and my husband works from home so he has both of us and our attention all day long. He’s the happiest, most fun little guy and I’m soaking it up. He’s my little buddy.

I love this new baby already but find myself getting sad and almost dreading having to split my time between the two. I’m mourning what my first son (and I) will lose, mostly, quality time together.

I know most of us in this group have gone on to have more babies. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions for this transition? Anything that helps your guilt?