I’m noticing more and more that my husband brings more problems and stress than calm in my life. He’s an alcoholic. Just now taking a little more control over his life/health. I feel like his mother more than his mom. We’ve been together 7 years. I do love him but it’s been so hard. He’s got bipolar tendencies and different personalities. Almost every event with him I have to dread. I’d rather avoid things than go with him. He always plans trips with his friends or brothers but never anything with me.m anyway. I stopped trying so hard. We feel like roommates not husband/wife. Communication was never our strong suit. I find myself in these patterns of distancing and feeling lonely. I keep convincing myself all marriages go through ups and downs that I need to stick it out. He really has no one when it comes down to it, I’m the only one that cares. Rant over.😞