How to deal when everyone else you know announces pregnancy and you are struggling after two miscarriages. I could have had a perfect baby three years back but i had two missed abortions in these three years. People not only announced their pregnancy but are now even celebrating one year birthdays... and it feels really empty inside that we re still struggling. I cant controls my tears now. Every cycle i do hundreds of test just to see two lines. No matter how hard i stay to be sane but i m losing it.