So me and my husband have been trying to conceive since August 2020 and it is just not happening and I’m really struggling to come to terms why it isn’t.

I’m 29 and my husband is 34, I wouldn’t say we are in the healthiest of positions with our bodies both smoke trying to quit and been loosing weight ect to help. It’s frustrating as we see family members around us smoke loads more, more overweight and conceive without even trying like we have been.

I used to do ovulation tests all the time and take vitamins and everything but it just got so overwhelming and depressing I stopped.

We are regular in the bedroom and have great sex so I just don’t understand why it’s not happening.

We contacted our doctor and they won’t help as I’m under 30 and have to be trying for 2 years at least for it to happen.

I don’t know how to stop stressing that it’s not happening either as many people keep saying if you keep thinking about it, it won’t happen.

Not a day goes by when I don’t think about it, I just don’t know what to do anymore.

Any advice or support will greatly help!

Thanks so much

Katie x