So I go to collage getting what I need to get the job I want iam doing other things along side collage to that will help me get where I want to be iam busy 5 days out the week I have collage work to stay on top of and my placement every Friday this week been a bit of a stressful one as I have an assessment tomorrow from collage and iv been stressing about that so I go collage today I get home and my other half and son 3 have been together all day I get home the pots are still in the sink the house needs tidying from my 3 year old making a mess and he hasn't done anything around the house it would be nice if he helped me out with things iam forever cleaning tidying cooking taking care of our 3 year old and honestly I just feel drained and so tired I wake up every morning with our son he dose go to collage for 3 days where he has to be up and he is but them other days I have to always tell him to get up and on weekends he get up at 11 I never to sleep in he never offers to get up with our son and let me rest he never really helps with the house work and we been down this road so meny times I tell him he needs to help out more and he even says he needs to do more but it never changes and it gets to the point where I feel so mentally and physically exhausted where I tell him and it just doesn't change I honestly don't know what to do I felt so overwhelmed today with everything coming up tomorrow I just got in the bath and cried he come in and said it looks like you been crying I didn't say i was and he didn't ask if I was okay what would you guys do I have been with him for over 6 years