If you are dating someone long distance you have never even kissed. If one of you were to have had sex with someone while away, before you have ever physically been together at all. And neither of you could really know what the other is actually up to, is that cheating? Or is that human?

would this still be considered a less serious part of the relationship?

Like what if he or she slipped up one time before meeting? But after meeting things are solid and sure.

Anyone can say anything but what if you are isolating yourself, but the other is still doing whatever they want. And you don’t know what they are really doing when they don’t answer the phone or go long periods of time without talking to you? And you are just wasting your time essentially. But you won’t know till you are with them in person.

At what point do you consider the foundation to be solid to where either of you should take it super personally?