Everyday I feel like I do or say something to make my husband and I argue. He says it’s the stupid things I say that makes him upset and I don’t know how to fix it. I’m constantly making sure that’s he is okay and happy and I try to not upset him. Like tonight my father put stuff in the truck of the car without me knowing and we were out getting groceries, well when he opened it up I was trying to make him see it as no big deal and I said it’s okay we can put stuff in the front seat and he got so angry with me bc to him I said something stupid and I didn’t care how we got our food home it’s not big deal but I definitely didn’t mean that. What can I do to work on myself to be a better wife and mother

TO ADD: everyday something happens and somehow I did something for that to end up happening