This has been going on for a long time now and it literally makes me so emotional thinking about it. Me and my husband has 3 kids. Our last kid is 3 months old, so maybe just hormones.

Anyways, I’m getting so tired of my husband being a taxi driver for his mom. Not only that, he pays all of her bills and furnished her whole entire home!

Like today, her heater went out so someone fixed it and she literally took a picture of the bill to send him. Who does that? 😭

We have three kids, why in the world is he taking care of his mom like his other kid?

The most annoying part of all is that she takes advantage of him and she is SO degrading. All red flags, but he doesn’t see it. 🥺 🚩

My husband tells me all the time, “can’t tell my mom this or she’ll spank me” and now I actually believe him. I talked to his brother about the whole situation and he said it’s true. That’s how Hispanic moms are.

…But when he’s moved out, has a wife and kids? I respect the fact that he loves his mom and he’ll do anything for her but this is too extreme. He always says “honor thy mother and father” and that’s one of the commandments but really?

I don’t buy my mom everything. She pays her bills… I still take her out to eat and pay. That doesn’t mean I don’t love her.

My heart is literally just broken. How am I suppose to take care of my kids and always be in my feelings like this? This is literally emotional damage. I’m wife, but I don’t matter it seems like.

I feel like I’m walking on egg shells around her. 😔

Also, I had two businesses with my husband until she stepped in and took over. By me saying “had” my husband still has them but he has to report to mommy. She calls and texts him 24/7. And make him give her HIS 10% (church offering).

I honestly miss working beside my husband. Why would he let her take over and move me to the curb? I also use to make stuff but she literally stole all my ideals and make them now… like who does that? What MIL does that? I used that money for my kids. Her grandchildren. Why does my husband not see how she is???? 😭😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺🥺💔💔💔💔