Distant boyfriend

cynthia

A little venting , idk if it’s the prego hormones or me overthinking .. so I’ve been with my boyfriend going on 5 years this year and we’ve had our up and downs through the relationship due to his ex whom he shares 4 kids with .. all along our relationship he’s expressed on how he wants kids with me and what not and always tried to get my pregnant.. early on in the relationship we got pregnant but ended up getting an abortion ( nothing to be proud of 😔) because it wasn’t the right time .. he expressed his feelings as to him feeling sad and wanting to try again later on because he liked the thought of having children with him ..fast forward to now .. well we found out we are pregnant 1-20-22 I was shocked because I didn’t think I would get pregnant that easy .. he said he wAs shocked too and he’s excited but it’s hard to read him because doesn’t seem to excited , he checks up on me and asks how I am doing and says he wants to go to the first appointment .. do men change during pregnancy? Am I overthinking? Any advice would help to calm my anxiety