So just want some thoughts/opinions…

I’m currently 8 weeks preg with my 2nd. I’m really contemplating not telling my mil I’m pregnant for the foreseeable future.

We have a pretty shitty relationship , she’s lied and stole from us. She’s extremely emotional and gets frantic about stuff.

With my first she would stop over every day unannounced even after we asked her to call/ text before.

My parents and sisters know , so I feel kind of bad but she’s so stressful and annoying I don’t. She recently asked my partner if I was and I made him tell her I was just eating too many cheese burgers.

Think I should tell her or no?anyone wait to tell their mil? I’m thinking like 20 weeks if that