I’m 20 weeks pregnant and my baby daddy is being really abusive to me. Last night I made a post about us living together in our own place. Seems like that idea will fall thru. We went shopping today at once upon a child and everything was fine. We had a decent day. Well he asked me to come over and was really disrespectful to me so I told him no. He immediately said “give me my sons clothes”. He’s always trying to control me and do things thru almost everything he does for me or my unborn child. We went shopping I took the clothes to my moms house and washed them, had planned on bringing them over later on when I met up with him. Since he was being disrespectful i decided I wouldn’t see him. So he got on credit karma we was looking at places he was totally fine saying his score is 750. I said well you won’t need a co signer like you had thought. He was excited so was I looking at places and discussing it. He then gets a call from his dad who was intoxicated. He probably told his entire family about his credit score who then I’m sure is trying to talk him out of doing anything with me and our son bc they can’t have an empty nest. They have no life without this dude. I’ve about had enough. Now he’s begging for the clothes back. I’m just really not going out of my way to do anything for him. I have no energy for this crap. He’s really immature, he says he can’t afford a mortgage but sends me apartments about $1200 a month….like what? A house/apartment it don’t matter there will be an excuse either way. I guess I’m just going to get a place with my mom and be done with him. I’m halfway thru my pregnancy I don’t have time to go back and forth and battle with someone’s parents when I’m going to have to take care of my son. It’s just not going to work out how I thought it would and I don’t need some guy having massive mood swings going back n forth with me about something so serious. So his mom can keep him, he won’t need responsibility to do anything. I’m just done with the immaturity.