So my son has a friend that has been engaged for a month now. His friend met this girl and dated her for 6 months. After finally having sex (once they became engaged) she decides to tell him shes 184,000 in debt. She got a bachelor degree and is not good with her money. She's not even doing what she went to college for. He has completely freaked out because he has saved his money and works hard for his future. Now this has given him a sense of hopelessness and frustration on so many levels. He doesn't know what to do and why did she wait til now to tell him this? :(