Little fun rant

Ok this may seem crazy! But has anyone noticed that guys don’t really finger anymore?? Like it’s such a lost art and yes I say art because it’s such a good way to start out foreplay like do guys not like it or do they not even try?? First time I got fingered I almost went crazy over two fingers it was fun. Now I’m with someone who says “it doesn’t do anything for him” of course it doesn’t because you’re fingering someone but I insisted he do it anyway and he liked it. The very first person I lost my virginity to he was so childish and I’m pretty sure he was scared of vagina (his exact words) he mad me feel bad about it obviously why we are not a couple. But back to my point does anyone do that anymore???