social media & relationships *see description*

Would YOU consider it a “red flag” if your boyfriend/fiancé/husband/ SO followed like 95% girls on tiktok, most that just post “thirst traps” (videos of them trying to look good/with little clothing)? Also has his snapchat in his bio but no where else on his socials? My fiancé pretty much just follows these type of girls (not saying these girls are bad). I’m not trying to be insecure and I usually don’t care about his socials but he stays off his snapchat and tiktok while i’m close, but he’ll be on it while we aren’t together quite a bit because he snapchats me or sends me lots of tiktoks only while he’s away but is HARDLY ever on either of those while around me, like he’ll ignore his notifications on them and has it to where even if his phone is on it doesn’t show his who has snapchatted him but it’ll have the notification show up. please tell me if i’m being insecure or if that sounds fishy😩