“We’ll get new friends 🤪” no, you don’t understand - these are people I’ve built a long term connection with and I’m completely done.

I hate people who pretend to care

My father is high risk and got covid. He’s currently being intubated with kidney faliure. I’m angry I’m exhausted and I hate this right now.

Me and my family’s are coping with this as best as we think we can.

However I don’t like these messages from my friends.

“Message me if you need anything”

“I’m here for you!”

“Please update me”

Don’t send me pity messages if you’re going to ignore my message after 11 hours. Don’t say you’re here for me if you’re only sending me automatic responses like “it’s going to be okay 💖”

Stop pretending to do your job so you can feel like a good friend. I’m hurting, I don’t need those types of commitments- all I want is someone to call me and tell me “I’m here for you to vent”

But they don’t and they won’t- cause they don’t really care.