So I feel like my mother is trying to control how I parent. I’m really getting tired of it! Like she insists on putting my daughter on the schedule she made up. Insists that she doesn’t need her second nap. Some days she does and some days she doesn’t. She bought my daughter a winter coat after I told her not to. And just today My mother says she wishes that we wouldn’t take our daughter in the snow… granted she doesn’t like it but I feel that isn’t my mother’s place to tell me not to put my kid in the snow… Then when ever I tell my mother to basically stay in your lane I’m being mean to her… she doesn’t know what it’s like to have some one be critical of EVERYTHING you do! … what should I do? I’m I the mean one? I don’t know. I just want my mother to stop trying to act like she knows better and trust that my husband and I know what we are doing.