Virginity-

Any tips on how to relax during trying to have sex. I always tense up unknowingly and scoot away when he’s trying to get it in. Idk what to do- we’re very comfy with each other and everything but when we try i get unaroused from nerves and sometimes he’ll get soft from it not working. I think I worry about the pain even though I know it’ll be okay.

Should i like take my own virginity with a toy before trying it with him instead 🤷🏽‍♀️