Ok yell at me

So I’m 31 weeks preggo and I may have had a accident or amniotic fluid come out. Can’t tell. Baby hasn’t been moving as much(still moving though) and they already gave me the steroid shots. I had back pain but it calmed and threw up. I just had an appointment yesterday and she was said to have moderate movement. Ok now this is where you yell. I didn’t go to er. I have a four year old and didn’t want to wake him to go to er for another ok it’s not so bad moments and be sent home. I am going to go this morning but later. My husband is deployed and it’s me and my baby. I have a friend who would help but she has three kids and we have already had false alarms. I do have preeclampsia. I know I should just go now but idk why I’m hesitating. And I put on a pad and no more has come out. So I’m sure it may just have been pee. :/ which makes me feel worst. Like I’m 30 lol. But I went after I woke and peed fully so idk it goes both ways

Update at hospital. Baby is moving and blood pressure is low. Waiting to see if it pee or amniotic fluids. Hoping it’s nothing