Did I ruin the mood?

Question

I was about to have sex with my partner and I mentioned I was debating between 2 positions because I was feeling tired. He basically said I ruined the mood and we didn’t have sex. We’ve been together almost 3 years.. I guess to me it’s normal to be tired and still want to have sex and didn’t see a problem being open about it considering we’ve been together for a while. Did I kill the mood?

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Lol he probably took u saying youre tired as u dint want to

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It shouldn’t kill the mood at that point in the relationship 🤷‍♀️ but everyone’s comfort level is different. I’ve said way more off putting things than that when I’m tired but still willing. Sometimes it’s wild and passionate and other times it’s a quickie or just oral, having different levels of enthusiasm during sex is normal in a long term relationship IMO.

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I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. Been living together since 7 months. I don't usually mention tiredness when we are about to have sex. Even if I'm tired I'll be as enthusiastic as possible while doing it then I'll complain about tiredness after or when we are going to sleep. May have ruined the mood because uou were contemplating 2 positions while tired. We didn't get the whole conversation but if your guy is like mine he overthinks. He could think the positions you were between are for when you're tired or it's boring/not passionate. Have a deeper conversation and find out why it bothered him. It's probably something deeper.

Did I ruin the mood?

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