Making girl friends

Does anyone else have trouble making girl friends? I think my problem is that every girl friendship I’ve had was toxic but that was in high school. Now I’m scared about making friends because I feel like they won’t have my best interest at heart. Basically like paranoia I guess. Girls always talk badly about me behind my back, either about my weight or my hair. Idk if it’s because I try to be nice as possible but still get taken advantage Of as well. For example I wanted to start a lash business and I asked two girls that I considered friends one of them I’ve known since middle school. I asked them if I sent them some lashes if they would promote them on their Instagram pages so I can get my business up and running.They both were really excited for me and said of course. So I mailed them the lashes, they both message me saying how much they love the lashes. I was so happy. Then weeks went by no promotion nothing and one of them even wanted me to send her another pair for free. The same girl i sent lashes to said she wanted to hang out with me and that she’d be in my city the following day. So I was like okay I was excited got dressed and stuff. She texted she was on her way that she was going to visit another friend before she came to me (the other friend lives 10 minutes away from me). So I waited downstairs ready to go. 2 hours went by I texted her no response, I go on Instagram and see she’s posted a story partying with her friends. And never even told me she wasn’t coming. Another example same girl I sent the lashes. I decided I wanted to become a nail tech and posted my designs on Instagram. She messages me after not talking to me for months saying I could practice on her. And like a dummy trying to be nice I was like yeah girl of course. These aren’t even half as bad as past experiences with girl friends. I would just like to make friends with people who I don’t have to put in most of the effort and I can be myself around. Does anyone else have a problem with making friends in their 20s?