Valentines Day…

So of course lemme jump on the “my husband didn’t do anything” wagon.

Here’s the thing. I spent all day making him a gift basket, decorating the house for him. I even bought myself a new dress and everything for our dinner date. He knows all of this, he didn’t know what everything looked like but he knew I put my all into it.

Well he texts me and says that someone at work who we have had issues with her being too friendly, got him a valentines. He has always told me that he’s never had personal conversations with her because of how she acts and he’s never friendly. But this valentines he received had literally all his favorite things.

So me of course, I got mad. I’m pregnant too so I’m not the most level headed. Anyways, I told him that this hurt me and he just kept telling me it’s not a big deal, that I was being dramatic. And then he says, “I’m not taking you anywhere tonight”. He came home, and was yelling at me saying I ruined everything. That we could’ve had a nice evening but I had to fuck it up. I felt bad. But I felt like my feelings were valid. This girl has literally called him at 2 in the morning just to see how he was doing.

Then he broke up with me.

He told me he couldn’t do this anymore, that I was too much. That it was a nice gesture from her. He didn’t even thank me for the gift I gave him, which I still gave him btw. Now I don’t know what to do.. I’m pregnant.. I wasn’t expecting to be broken up with like this or even for this reason..