My SO and I have been together for 10 years. Lately we have been arguing a lot. Probably the past 6 months. They are little arguments and they don’t last long but it happens all throughout the day/evening. He gets on my nerves very bad. To where I question, do I even LIKE him anymore? I definitely love him. I want the best for him. But his personality I don’t think I like anymore. I still enjoy cooking for him and doing little things but it’s always short lived. He’s a battery drainer, a little high strung, Somewhat of a complainer, and doesn’t take full responsibility for things sometimes. And he gets upset kinda easily. But not towards me. For the past 2 years he has been on and off with jobs. He gets a job, a good job that pays well then he finds something he doesn’t like about it and leaves. To be honest, some have been for good reason but most haven’t. And It does NOT effect his bill paying behavior and he never asks me to pay his bills or to give him money. But still, it’s exhausting to see him constantly changing jobs and complaining about them. He has no trouble getting hired bcuz the people love him and his work ethic. But he never stays. He just got hired making over $30/hr and he is SUPER excited about it. I have never seen him this excited about a position so I’m hoping he stay. He loves me ALOT. He’s not disrespectful towards me and he is an admirable father. We have both changed majorly throughout our relationship. Positive changes. His changes being much more drastic tho. He used to drink. He doesn’t anymore ever since our daughter was born. We are both pretty successful in our careers and we have a toddler together. But sometimes I wonder, is this why break ups happen more often around the 10 year mark? Bcuz u just can’t stand the other person anymore? I feel guilty. Sometimes I want to leave him and never look back. But sometimes, I miss him 2 hours after I have left the house. What do I do? Does any1 feel the same in their 10 year relationship? Are my feelings a phase? Is this normal?