Married couples w kid/s...

How many times a month on average would you say you have sex?

I feel like...well I know our sex life has dramatically changed since we have two small children but dang like once or twice a month 😑 we keep having this discussion and I'm about over it and don't know what to do. He doesn't take advantage when the kids are at daycare or sleep or anything... granted he works ALOT but still. He was on vacation from work for like 3 weeks and I think we only had sex once maybe twice 🙄🙄🙄