My daughter will be 14 months old in about a week. I have never done the CIO method. Well, I don't know what else to do. She wakes up multiple times a night, and when I pull her in bed with me, she still cries. She has a clean diaper, I have tried a drink and she won't take it. She just doesn't sleep. No naps, barely sleeps. I tried the CIO method last night. After 30 minutes, she fell asleep. Then was back up 10 minutes later. My husband got upset with me for caving in. When she cries, I turn very mean with people who are trying to stop me from comforting her. I get very upset to the point of wanting to cry. I don't know how to get her to sleep at night. And I don't like her crying. Please help me with some ideas. And please dot bash me. She's my child, and the CIO method was te last thing I wanted to do.