I know you get criticized for cutting off your babydaddy . Because he’s the dad he has a right etc etc . But I can’t do this anymore . It has fucked with my mental health. He’s manipulative and toxic. He doesn’t want to be with me but doesn’t want me to be with anyone else . I’m pregnant with his second child , he won’t babysit our first unless he knows I’m working so it’s not like he cares about custody . I don’t feel strong enough to set my boundaries because I feel like I’m trauma bonded to him. I just rather never see him again. He’s already told people I don’t let him see our kid , that I put child support on him bc I just wanted his money. He can go days and weeks without seeing our daughter . I just rather do all this alone . 😔😔 I know his family and mine will judge me for it but for my fucking sake I feel I need to cut him off . Like I just want to be able to move on and not have him start drama or make me feel like shit . Like I gave up trying to get him more involved . I don’t feel like I’m bitter but I can’t stand myself crying all the time because of all he’s done to me , and I feel me being sad and angry all the time interferes with how I parent my baby . 😔 I just want to feel at peace . I’m seriously so lost 😞