I hate to say this…
But I think my husband is trying to make me paranoid. He spends A LOT of time on his phone. He’s heavy into astrology so he’s always on his phone doing research I guess. I noticed that when I come near him it seems like he’s tryna hurry and exit out of something. He also tilts his phone in a direction that I can’t see the screen. I asked him about it and obviously he said he has nothing to hide. One day, he was sitting right across from me at a small table on our balcony. I wanted to test and see if he would do anything sneaky so I quickly got up and simultaneously he quickly went to press the back button. We both started laughing. It reassured me that I indeed am seeing what I think I’m seeing. He showed me his phone screen immediately and there wasn’t anything for me to be upset about. At the time, I thought it was enough to put me at ease but it isn’t. I told him about my concern and asked him to be more mindful about the way he holds his phone because it seems suspicious. He’s like “ oh well, that’s how I hold my phone.” Apart of me wants to match energy, but I know the best thing to do is continue to be a good wife and watch how things play out. Hopefully, peace can be restored in the house. .
Anyway, thank you for listening to me rant.
*Update*
It’s been months later and I recently found out he was doing inappropriate things on his phone. Asking escorts when they’ll be available, saved only fans pics/videos. I’ll be right next to him and he would do it. I would have NEVER guessed he was this disgusting. Even with proof he tried to lie or tell the half truth about what he did. Always listen to your gut.
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