long story: so my husband and i are planning on going back home to visit his family. i am 15 weeks rn. but he is planning on extending his stay for another month because it is ramadan and he wants to spend ramadan back home with his mom. my concern is i have appointments that i can’t miss since i’m pregnant. one of which we find out the gender. he wants to stay there for 2 months but i want him to be with me during this time. i want to find out the gender together and want him to experience everything with me. he hasn’t been back in beginning of 2019. his mother couldn’t attend the wedding cuz of visa issues and all. am i being unreasonable that he wants to extend his stay? what should i do?