Feel like a loser

Basically im 25, working as a per diem nurse and also in school for my BSN. I don’t have that much money or credit, but im working hard for both currently. im a little behind.

my 23 year old brother is already established, about to move out with his friends. I just feel like such a bum and loser. im so behind in life.

also, my bf of two years always talks about moving in together somewhere. im going to start working full time end of the summer and will be able to start thinking of moving out with him. however he just told me that his friend is looking for a roommate and he may do it. is it bad if i wished he’d wait for me? again, just feel so behind /: idk. anyone have any advice? :(