postpartum and asked if i’m pregnant 😡

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i’m almost 6 weeks postpartum and had to go for an employment physical. as i was leaving the provider asked me if i’m pregnant... she must’ve read it on my face and then asked if i just had a baby. i’m so self conscious of my belly ... this is my 2nd baby (he was almost 9 pounds) and my belly hasn’t returned to “normal” ... i gained almost 35 pounds and have lost almost 25 pounds so far. after i left i got in my car and cried 😪 why do people think it’s ok to comment on my body and make me feel bad about myself 🥺