Ugh my hair breaks sooo much!

Any shampoo and conditioner that you recommend? I am white my stylist says I have over moisturized fine hair but I feel it’s so dry. I have a bunch of flyaways and split ends (individual hair strands are all different lengths). Thinking of just doing a bobcut and starting all over again but would like to know how to maintain my hair properly after. 🙏

I wash my hair every-other day bc I exercise and I get super sweaty.