Bad sex… HELP!

I am in a new relationship & everything about this man is WONDERFUL, except the sex.

VA 👏🏻 NIL 👏🏻 LA 👏🏻. Y’all, I hate to even say it out loud, because I feel terrible.

Last night there was a teeny bit of foreplay (not enough to get me off) then missionary (which can be great, I just prefer sex on the little more exciting side).

No dirty talk. No noise at all. I am vocal in bed so now I feel like a weirdo. I didn’t even know he came last night… 🤦🏼‍♀️

I know communication is how this should be handled, but I am uncertain the best way to go about it.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions or help! ♥️