Married but still alone

I’m married and have been together for 11 years. We are currently expecting our second baby. Currently I work very little because of health issues. When we moved out I took care of everything (not from lack of trying). Since our first kid I have had the sleepless nights plus every else. I don’t ask for much help but I get some mad when he can’t or won’t do simple stuff. I’m tired of being married and still being so alone. I have bluntly told him multiple times how I feel and he won’t listen. Most days I want to on my own because it’s one less person to take care of. I feel stuck