How often do you wear matching Bra and Undies?

My boyfriend has complained that I don’t wear matching bra/panties, and that I don’t wear thongs more often.

I wear a lot of light colored tops, so I wear a lot of nude colored bras, and prefer brighter undies. I have tons of thongs, but I don’t wear them to work (seamless bikinis) or under leggings (commando) I usually wear thongs under jeans, and wear cotton (brightly colored bikini cut) underwear to bed.

He doesn’t like the baby doll style lingerie I have that is matching—- top and undies.

I’m really frustrated and he also gets frustrated and had a hard time explaining what he wants or why he’s so set on one thing—which I figured out was matching bra and thong undies. He acts like I’m crazy and that matching bra and undies is the norm.

We are both in our late 30s! I’m pissed that I’m even thinking about this.