Which guy would you choose?
Soooo I’ve been dating ladiesss
And currently interested in 2 men, for different reasons. But kinda not sureee..
Guy #1:
Pros
- super physically attractive, im veryy physically attracted to him. Great sexual chemistry
-wants a serious relarionship
-buys me little items he sees I like here and there
-attentive
Cons
- hard to open up to. Seems guarded, but says hes not rushing into anything
-not that easy to talk to. But also more shy
-weird one but… doesnt make me feel “special”. I sort of feel like “just another girl” if that makes sense
-not much of a sense of humor
-says he wants serious but doesnt even ask me about ME as much
- i feel like I cant always be myself. Like I have to always looks amazing or something..
- seems judgmental
Guy #2:
Pros
-super easy to talk to. I can tell him anything and he’ll laugh with me and not even flinch
-makes me feel good about myself, special.
-whenever he drops me home, he always follows up with “let me know when you’re inside :)” this small act is soo sweet to me..
-says hes not jumping to sexual things because he’d rather have a meaningful connection first as its more important to him, which I love. And hes stuck to it
- i can be my total self. I never feel uncomfortable
- hes respectful and understanding
Cons
- sometimes it feels like a friendship only, because we havent kissed or anything or even had any type of sexual talk at all. Idk if thats a bad thing, but hes been clear that he doesnt want to push me away by showing that too early and that yes hes super interested
- im physically attracted to him yes, but not as “hot and steamy” as the first guy. Hes more of a dorky cute lol which is still cute
Sooo im kind of battling this intense sexual connection I have with guy#1 who SAYS he wants more than just sex, but isnt really easy to talk to.. asking about me etc…
And guy #2 who there isnt yet a great physical connections BUT hes amazing to talk to and constantly asks about me, wanting to know me and all of that
To be clear, I want a serious relationship.
Thoughts?
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