Any tips on how to increase libido?

When im hornier, the more active and involved i get in sex, and the more my man loves it/ we have more fun and he gets more turned on. Sex is always great but its better when i get that wave of wanting to get off and just have fun with sex. I dont get it all the time but at random times. Sometimes ill be super wild and ride him like crazy, and switch positions while fucking him back with high energy. How can i be like that more often??