Im always in some type of way

Every time my husband ask me where something is and I have no idea I start getting hot and my heart races because I know I’m going to get yell at because since I’m the one that cleans the house I automatically know or I’m the one that lost it. He can’t find is cash app card. I don’t use the cards I touch them when he has me run in to get something I don’t buy anything so I have no us for the cards he uses ( I’m a STHM so I have no money ) but I just get so worried and scared when I don’t know where stuff is. My memory is horrible ( I had a stroke when I was in high school and my memory was fine when I actually had stuff to do now I just do things with my kids so ) but it gets worse every day. I dread whenever he ask me where anything is…