Which would you prefer?

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Would you prefer a guy with a small penis who seems to be consistent with communication and shows you he’s interested and makes you feel wanted…and doesn’t seem bothered by his small size…
Or, a guy with a big/average size who treats you like you’re an option, doesn’t communicate, shows no interest or ghosts then come back?

Accepted Answer

I don’t choose my partner based on penis size. Hope that answers the question..

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What a stupid question.

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Are these men looking to pick between you and another woman based on breast size and intelligence?

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I mean, if both were equally cool, good communication is really important, I'd always rather have good communication, than sex at all tbh. 
But small penises are absolutely no problem for me anyway. In sex I want passion mostly. The rest is easy and not what I care most about anyway. 
Good communication takes awhile to establish though, because every person & relationship is different- and I'm well aware that I date avoidant attachment people specifically, and I'm also a bit avoidant in establishing attachments. So it really does take more time or there are more difficulties in establishing healthy communication. I'm realistic about that, I suppose. 
I'm polyam so I've got time for both lol

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It wouldn’t matter on the size of their penis but how he treats me and guy number 1 with the small penis sounds like a better option hands down

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For me sexual compatibility is just as important as emotionally/mental compatibility so neither would be an option for me; if those were my options and the first guy couldn’t get me off or be compatible with me in bed I’d choose a vibrator

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Also wanted to add; I wouldn't know the penis size of the second guy because why on earth would I ever sleep with someone who treats me poorly in the first place?

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Would you want a guy to choose you even though you have small boobs and fat rolls but you're nice?
Or would you want a guy to choose you because you have big boobs and a flat stomach even though you treat him like crap?
Would you want a guy to choose you because of the way your body looks?

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Neither lol, especially if the first one didn’t know how to use it/ sex was bad/ not enjoyable for me. As far as the second one goes.. why would I be with someone like that? PLENTY of men out there who will treat me right and know how to lay it down 🤷🏻‍♀️. I don’t settle for less than I deserve.

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Penis size is not the top trait I look for in a man 
And if that what you go off you will not be happy with either

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