Trying to conceive

Hey Mamas! I need all the opinions I can get on this. My Husband and I have been trying for years. I have had a couple miscarriages within the last few months. This last cycle I thought maybe was my chance of conceiving and then my period came! 😪 It's beyond frustrating because I have literally done everything I possibly could. Tracking my bbt, Tracking my Ovulation days, cutting out alcohol, I don't smoke. I have even cut back my coffee intake! Which is literally killing me I feel like death all the time because my body wants more coffee, I have sex before and on my fertile days!! I know stress and worrying constantly can also play a factor of not conceiving. Should I just drop everything for once, stop worrying? My Birthday is coming up on the 5th of April and my Friend's want to take me out. Should I just forget about everything, go out have a few drinks? Maybe it will come this month? 🤔 What are yall thoughts?