My husband is trying to get rid of all the baby items

ellie

I just feel so sad. We always said we would talk about baby 3 when baby 2 was 2. She’s not even 18 months yet and he’s giving me the ‘I’m not done but I am’ signals.

He’s told me to start sorting through their clothes and selling stuff on, particularly the baby clothes and my youngest’s current size as I move to bigger size as they ‘have too many clothes.’

Now we are just moving our eldest into bunk beds (our kids are the same gender so plan is to share for their middle years) and our youngest is going into a toddler bed as she hates the cot. My husband has just asked if my parents will want the cot back (it was mine and my brothers when we were young) and I said probably at some point. He said they might as well have it back now as we probably won’t use it again and if we do god knows when.

I’m literally sat here close to tears and can’t speak to him. I’ve always said I want one more baby. He’s always said maybe. But now it seems he’s made his decision and is making that clear to me and I’m so sad. I don’t even know how to approach it with him. We’ve been together 10 years but I honestly am struggling to find words for him at the moment.

What should I do?! 😢😭

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